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Daddy, Little Girl loves you.: Concept of Daddy/Little Girl Relationships :


Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dominant. His choice is to be a Daddy Dom, this does not mean incest (as has been said in the past by ignorant people) rather a Daddy Dom is One who cares for, nutures, shapes, and molds his babygirl into the image He thinks she should become. He sees in her someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He often times believes more in her, than she believes in herself.

His love for his babygirl goes without question. He loves her as much for who she is, as for what she will become with His guidance. she is …… His prized possession. a Daddy’s eyes will light up when she comes into a room and take great pride in her success’s. Afterall, He helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of His heart and has greatest power to hurt Him.

This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his lilgirl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given Him and takes great pains to increase it’s value. It is extremely important to Him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with Him.

He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, His discipline is more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the lilgirl to really trust, she must know He means what He says. If His lilgirl is going to be the best she can possibly be He must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and His knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.

If He does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If His submissive finds that she can manipulate Him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect.

This takes great strength on His part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to His needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all He wants to do is hold her safe in His arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined.

A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to His submissive…acceptance. She is safe in His arms because He knows her, everything about her, and He still loves her. When she goes to Him she knows that this Man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn’t matter. To Him she is and always will be beautiful.

A Daddy Dom and a Sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive’s masochism. This balance is necessary to many lilgirls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship.

I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of Male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/lilgirl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it’s participants crave.

Perhaps a Daddy Dom is something only a lilgirl can understand.

(via secretplaytime-deactivated20140)

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  • 8th February
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My Very First Fantasy…

So we all have fantasies, some more than others, some come and go, but this is my first one, the one I’ve had since before I’d ever even had sex. One that is still with me, forgotten at times I’ll admit, but still there…. 

I read a lot of ‘romance’ books, ones where the girl does get kidnapped, I guess this is where it all came from… I always had a fantasy of getting kidnapped, bound and tied. I always told myself I’d do exactly what they said to do… anything, sexual or otherwise… 

The kidnappers would think I was such a good fuck they wouldn’t ask for any ransom, never want to give me up…. They’d use me… 

  • 8th February
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More to me….

So, I’m single again, have been for a bit, if no one noticed my blog, pictures and such have been a bit more out there… This has been since my break up…

I found myself holding back, even with my blog, but I’ve decided to say fuck it, post what I want, say what I want… So I’ve decided to start two new ‘tags’ for lack of a better word: Shadowedsub fantasy and Shadowedsub Past.

I was once told I don’t come out about my past enough, both in the innocent way, and sexual, there’s always a reason behind this, what guy really wants to know all of his girlfriends past? Especially sexually. 

So here’s to this finally being my real outlet, the real me hardly anyone knows… 

Here goes nothing

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